Monday, December 30, 2013

Christmas Highlights

Here's the rundown on the highlights of our Christmas:

  • Brunch at Mom's Christmas Eve morning was very nice. The french toast casserole I made was really good, despite the fact that I had to bring over half of it home. It just couldn't compete with biscuits and deer sausage gravy, breakfast casserole and bacon. Most foods fail to compete with bacon, especially with two grown men and two teenagers. My mom gave Bryan and me a Clemson tailgate tent that we absolutely cannot wait to set up in the sand on vacation at Edisto.
at Mom's
  •  Christmas Eve dinner at my dad's was also nice. The house was full of kids which actually is pretty nice at Christmas. The food was good. Blake gave my little brother a pocket knife in his gift bag without me knowing, and of course, he cut himself with it almost immediately. That was the dramatic highlight of the evening.

  • Christmas Day at home was perfect. We had a simple morning of opening gifts and breakfast before Bryan headed to work. Afterwards we headed to Mom's to hang out and have lunch. In the afternoon a friend of hers took the kids and me flying in his plane. The kids loved it, but I have trouble with motion sickness so I spent my flight clutching the seat belt hoping I didn't puke! Ha! Oh well, at least I did it, even though I am afraid of heights and flying in that plane felt like flying on a tiny bug.
my gift~PW Holiday cookbook 
Blake opening his new Eno
waiting for Dad in front of the tree
Maddie and Olaf, she screamed so loud when she opened him
Bryan's weather center



        pre-flight plane check
          flying over Death Valley
  • The weekend after Christmas we headed over to spend the weekend with the Long side of the family. There are 9 grandchildren in the family and 4 under the age of 3. It looked like a toy store exploded in the house. We had a really good time even though this is the first Christmas without Nana.


Long Family
  • Blake has taken off for Camp Buc and Maddie is with Mom, so we are taking advantage of our time alone by celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary. Yay for us!
~Tara

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

About all our Christmas Events

This year I hosted the Lowery family again for a Christmas dinner. We didn't have the whole family present because some of them live away from here and a few were sick. We had soups and sides again and it seems to work well. It's a departure from our traditional meal when we met at Cuzzins but it's what we do for the time being. We had taco soup, broccoli soup, and tomato soup. Ham and cheese and chicken salad croissants were brought by my aunt. We had a good time visiting and the men sat around and told hunting stories... some things never change.

Today we are having brunch at Mom's and dinner tonight at Dad's. I am taking a French Toast Casserole to Mom's and I'll post the recipe if the crowd likes it. I'm taking dressing and gravy and broccoli casserole to Dad's. Despite all this food talk, the best part is just being together and having time to be at home and relax and step away from the routine of normal daily life.

I have been very moved this year to realize that no other thing matters in this life than living in God's presence. When we are in God's presence there is love, joy, peace, faithfulness, honesty, goodness.... and we are not in his presence all the opposites are true. I don't want any of the opposites in my life or my family. Our Christmas service at church was very powerful and reinforced the fact of how much God loves us and how much he gave so we could have a relationship with him and live in His presence. For this gift, I am most thankful and so undeserving, as I am a sinner daily and don't deserve to be near God at all. I want this to be my focus this Christmas and every day.

"The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth." John 1:14

Merry Christmas!
~Tara

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Sweater Wreath

I recently saw this idea online and knew I could pull it off. It's a sweater cut into pieces and threaded on a wire clothes hanger. I had a couple of hours this morning to work on this project and I had a fun time doing it. Here's some photos of the process...


cutting the sweater into pieces, first wreath done


with some silver ornaments hot glued on 



hanging on the entrance side table


view from the front door

I think they are cute. They were easy to make and they used a sweater that didn't fit anyone and was about to be donated. Can't beat that!

~Tara

Monday, December 16, 2013

Cotton Family Christmas

Over the weekend we had a Christmas meal with my mom's side of the family. We drove to Lake Marion and stayed at my aunt's lake house. It was a nice weekend despite the rain that set in about one hour prior to everyone arriving and our meal. We crammed everyone in the house and ate BBQ, rice and hash, mac and cheese, broccoli casserole, broccoli salad, and slaw. There is a distinct difference in how we do BBQ in the upstate and how they do it in the low country. It was very good but just different. I had mine on a bun with slaw, I had someone say they had never seen anyone do that. Really, ?? is there any other way??  Well, we don't have hash and rice in our neck of the woods, so my kids didn't eat any, it was just too weird they said. We were able to visit with family we had not seen in years, like 10-15 years. And it was nice to see my grandmother also. She seems to get around slower and more delicately every time we see her. It's quite a humbling experience to assist someone who struggles to do daily tasks that we take for granted being able to do. I didn't take the first picture, bad of me I know, but I enjoyed the weekend no less and was glad to have seen everyone. We hope to make it an annual event.

~Tara

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Antique Orchard Ladder

My sweetheart husband surprised me yesterday with something I have been wanting since we moved in the new house last year... an antique orchard ladder. I wanted it to be narrower at the top and old. We have an apple stand close to the house and he stopped there to ask about one. Luckily they had one they would sale and it is now mine. I have several heirloom handmade quilts that I wanted on display. And here they are...



The top quilt was made by my grandmother and is the one we used in our family pictures recently. It is one of my most treasured possessions. The second quilt belonged to my mother in law who passed away in January. The other special quilts are on the beds keeping us warm at night. Seeing these everyday reminds me of who they came from and where we came from. I love my home being filled with things that have meaning to us, not just random purchases to fill space.

~Tara

Monday, December 9, 2013

Pumpkin Muffins


The recipe of the season at the Long house has been Pumpkin Muffins. I found this recipe on Shay's foodie blog and it is so easy. 

Pumpkin Muffins
1 box spice cake mix
1 can of pumpkin
1 cup chocolate chips (I use mini's)

Mix cake mix and pumpkin. I have found using the hand mixer is best to get all the lumps out of the cake mix. Add the chocolate chips and stir with spatula.
Bake at 350 for 12-15 minutes. 
This recipe makes about 18 muffins and they last maybe two days at our house.

**I also made this recipe with a cinnamon quick bread mix and it was equally as delicious. Madalynn actually said they were better because they were lighter and more fluffy. The originals can be a little dense.**



Saturday, December 7, 2013

The Drop It Game

There's only one thing about me that drives my husband nuts. (When he reads this he will laugh) I drop things, in the shower mostly but in the kitchen too. I don't try to, I just am not awake enough to have my normal cat-like reflexes. Of course when you drop anything in the shower it sounds 100 times worse than it really is. He will get out of bed to come check on me and then he can't go back to sleep. Well this morning he dropped something into the kitchen sink and it scared me so badly. I thought it sounded like someone throwing up, why I don't know, but I was asleep so logic doesn't factor in there. He thought is was hilarious that he had woken me up and said, " I finally got you back for all the stuff you drop."



~Tara


Friday, December 6, 2013

Madalynn

Here's Madalynn, snorkeling in the crystal clear water off Shell Island. This was a highlight of our Florida vacation this past summer. Madalynn had never snorkeled before, and I hadn't either, the big difference is she was able to do it and I was not. I am not very comfortable in the water so I pretty much freaked out immediately and called it a day. I had a lot more fun watching and taking pictures of the rest of the family doing it. I admire that Madalynn is not afraid to try a new thing, or not try a new thing, whatever the case may be. This week she bowed out of an audition for the lead role in the play Annie at her school. She had been anticipating this show for 2 years and felt sure she would get the part based on her red hair alone. But she backed out saying it was too much for her to take on. We talked about it and I gave her several chances to change her mind. But she stood by her choice. We discussed that saying no to one activity means you are available to say yes to another. We aren't sure yet what the "other" is but we'll be ready when it is. I love that my girl is fearless and confident in herself, I hope she always stays that way.  
Snorkeling~ Shell Island, Panama City 2013


~Tara




Thursday, December 5, 2013

Being a Good Influence

Yesterday Blake and a friend helped lead the Hogs for Heaven meeting at school. It's similar to a FCA. He was prepared with a lesson but realized he didn't have enough time to execute the full lesson. He and the friend went to the teacher to explain and were encouraged to just speak from the heart. They began to share what their pastors had been teaching at church. Ours has been targeted to teens with regards to having a vision and purpose, with some instruction on friendships and dating. It was an excellent series and obviously Blake learned a lot from it. He said he was nervous and messed up a few times but overall he was bold and willing, in my opinion, to step up and talk about a potentially touchy subject with his peers. He is so much more courageous than I was in the 8th grade. I am proud that he is strong in his faith and unashamed to be a light for Jesus in his school.

"You are the light of the world- like a city on a mountain, glowing in the night for all to see." Matthew 5:14
in front of Cooper Library, Clemson University, Blake's 14th birthday


I love this boy! He can drive me to the brink of insanity at times, but I love him so much. God gave me Blake to teach me lessons, so many I can't even count.

~Tara

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Just some Stuff


  • Today I'm spending the day with my husband. We have some errands to run and we are hoping to finish Christmas shopping for the kids.
  • I am hoping to take Maddie to see Frozen over the weekend. She has fallen in love with Olaf, the snowman.
  • Every weekend from now until the end of the year is full of family gatherings. I'm looking forward to seeing family I have not seen in a LONG time.
  • At lastly, we are being very diligent in keeping ourselves focused on what Christmas truly means to us. Talks with the kids about Jesus and being the kind of person that stands out in the crowd and being different because we follow Jesus have been nice to have.
~Tara

Monday, December 2, 2013

Giveaway Fun!


 I'm a new blogger so I'm still learning the ropes. I do love to read other blogs, though, and find lots of ideas and inspiration from them. I read Shay's blog and love that she is funny and relatable. She's having some awesome giveaways as part of her 12 Days of Christmas series. I entered to win and so can you, head on over to her blog and check it out. Good luck!

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Tree..Done

The tree is up and the house is ready for Christmas. Here are a few of the highlights from the trip to Tom Sawyer's. These ducks were swimming around in the half frozen pond. The girl duck decided to put on a skating show. It was so cute.

 Here are the kids in front of the tree beside the one we actually cut!! Ha, we were busy making our choice and I forgot to take the "family in front of the tree" pic.



 My and my sweetheart.




It was a fun afternoon. Now I am off to watch some rivalry football and fry some wings in a while.
GO TIGERS!!!

~Tara

Friday, November 29, 2013

Getting our Christmas Tree

We always wait til after Thanksgiving to get our tree. I love Thanksgiving and really want to make sure it gets it's proper recognition. We have gone to Tom Sawyer's Tree Farm for at least the last 11 years, maybe longer, my memory isn't perfect. 



2009




Santa's elves

one of the sweetest pics of our kids...ever !!
2010
2011
my handsome husband :)

2012~ new house= taller tree

Our sweet girl growing up

This is one of our favorite Christmas traditions. And you know how big I am on tradition. I'll be back tomorrow to post our pics from this year's tree getting adventure. 

~Tara

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

For Perspective

My Thankful List:
  • Salvation and a relationship with my Savior
  • My husband, and that we love each other more now than when we started almost 16 years ago
  • My two children, who are healthy, intelligent, kind and are growing in love for the Lord
  • My parents, who taught me well and continue to love me by encouraging me and supporting me 
  • My siblings, the one who shared my childhood and the ones who came later and brought added joy
  • My extended family, who serve as a constant reminder that God uses all things to bring us closer to Him
  • My home, for its comfort and shelter from the outside world. May it always be a safe haven and loving place
  • Jobs, that provide all the necessities of life
I think these are all the things that matter, really. There are many other things I am thankful for from time to time, but they can sound silly and superficial. And I can get by without them. All the things on my list are essential to life for me and I will remember this holiday season to keep them at their rightful place in my priorities. Thank you, God, for way more than I deserve.

~Tara

Monday, November 25, 2013

Getting Ready for Thanksgiving

It's a short school week, and we are getting ready for Thanksgiving. Aside from vacation, this is my favorite week of the year. I enjoy cooking and eating our traditional Thanksgiving meal. I love spending the entire day in the kitchen with my mom and with the kids running around playing. I love the smell of cooking the dressing, my favorite! We are planning a Friday trip to get our Christmas trees at Tom Sawyer's. We have done this for at least 11 years, if I count correctly. Each year, things change in our life but we still hold true to honoring our family traditions. It's so important to me that we always do this. It puts our hearts focused on the things that really matter.

~Tara

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Cuzzins

My grandparents ran a small mom and pop country store called Cuzzins. We spent summers with them when we were young and the bus would drop us off there after school. We always ate a snack and watched TV at the fireworks counter. Nutty bars and a small coke were my favorite, healthy, I know! We used to drive each other on the handtruck up and down the aisles of the store. We played in the cooler in the summer and as we got older we would help do things around the store. My grandma taught me how to run the register and make change probably before I was 10 years old. My brother and me would use empty boxes to make cars out of, we would draw all the necessary parts for driving on the inside and hold them under our arms and run!!  My fondest memories of childhood are here. It wasn't all fun and games, we worked there too, stocking drinks cases and the shelves, dusting the shelves, sweeping and sweeping and sweeping. Unfinished pine floors are always dirty... especially when everyone in the small town comes in daily, sometimes many times a day. It was the hub of Mountain Rest. Usually your day started and ended there. Everyone knew everyone else's business, but in the good way, when neighbors help neighbors, and the store owner lets the customer run a bill until the end of the month when they can finally pay it up. There was no shame in running the bill and no worry about getting paid, a man was true to his word and paid on time. My grandpa's wallet was so big he could hardly sit on it, and he paid us, too much really, for our work there in the summers. What I got there was so much more than money, it was a solid foundation. An appreciation for hard work, honesty, and love. I loved being there, I loved being in the family that owned it. As they aged and were no longer able to keep up with the demands of the store, my grandparents closed shop but still lived in the back part of the store, where they always had lived. The first place we took Blake after leaving the hospital was to Cuzzins to see my grandparents. The shelves were empty, the store dark with fewer lights on. It was sad and happy all at the same time. Sad at what the store had stopped being in our small town, happy for my grandparents to see the next generation of our family coming along. I wish my kids could have experienced all I did at Cuzzins, but unfortunately, things don't last forever.... only the memories do.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Looking Back

Sometimes it's nice to look back. As this colder and darker time of year comes each year, I look back to vacation pictures and remember breathing the salt air and feeling toes in the sand.

Shell Island, Panama City Beach







at the Marina


Looking forward to next summer already.

~Tara

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Cheer Banquet



Madalynn had her cheer banquet over the weekend. She got a sports bag and Razorback shirt and a trophy.
This was her first year cheering and she did a great job, despite the hot Saturdays and evenings we had games.
Not sure if cheering is in her future, we'll have to wait till next season and find out.

~Tara

Monday, November 18, 2013

Mondays with Madalynn

Cooper and Colsen Long 2013 at Davidson College  Presbyterian Church in Davidson,NC. Cooper is 2 yrs. old and Colsen is 1 yr.old . Cutest cousins ever!


( Colsen is the one on the left Cooper  is on the right)


~Madalynn long~

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Family Picture Reveal

I picked up the CD from our photographer yesterday and am so pleased with our pictures.


pretty fall colors, nice looking family too








Cutting up


I love that we shot these pictures at our house, in our own surroundings. They are unique to us. I also love that we used my grandmother's quilt in them. It is one of my most treasured possessions.


~Tara

Friday, November 15, 2013

Souvenirs from Israel


Mom got back from Israel this past weekend. She brought us all some really cool souvenirs.
This was mine and Bryan's...

This nativity scene is hand carved from the wood of an olive tree. It's very intricate and beautiful. I love it. I am glad to have meaningful pieces of art in my home. I love for every piece to tell a story of this family. The carved monkeys in the left of the pic are from a mission trip my dad took to Africa when I was a kid. They are my evil monkeys. Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil. The dried roses are from Bryan's mom's funeral.  All are daily reminders of who loves you and what is important in life. 

~Tara

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Varsity Letter

Blake earned his letter in Cross Country. We are very proud of his accomplishments this season. Next order of business, buy our boy his letterman's jacket. That was the deal!



~Tara

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Weekend in Davidson

Long and Simmons Family 2013

The Donor Sabbath Service in Davidson was really nice. We had a great weekend with family and enjoyed lunch after church at Lib and Gary's house. The college town of Davidson was beautiful.






Davidson College campus


~Tara